Again I ask, What is in the middle?
On one end you have how you feel, your feelings and on the other end, you have your life, circumstances, events, happenings, and etc. What is in the space in the middle between the two? It is your thoughts. Furthermore, your thoughts actually change both ends. Your thoughts change how you feel and what you do. One of my many mentors said this. “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” — Wayne Dyer